At work we have been learning a new approach to teaching and disciplining and interacting with students referred to as conscious discipline. One of the best things I am seeing implemented is called the power of "yet". When a child/student is frustrated because they don't understand something or can't do something - we respond with "You can't do it "yet"." The permission that instantly gives a child to be ok with not knowing something right that moment is hard to explain. The hope that gives them can be read in the subtle change of their facial expression and a deep exhale. They realize they still hold the power to accomplish the task ahead. They just haven't "yet".
Knowing there are possibilities ahead and that we are not trapped in the present is a powerful thing. It isn't just a good reminder for the kids I work with each day. It is a great change of perspective for me everyday. I can always be working toward those things I don't understand or am still trying to master.
The power of "yet" keeps me from beating myself up for things I have not conquered today. It reminds me that I can be better tomorrow. It gives me incentive to dig in and try harder.
Because, who knows what I haven't accomplished "yet"?
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